Have you ever met the perfect guy but just had no chemistry at all? I met the perfect man. Everyone has their own definition of the perfect man. For me Mr. Perfect had a warm sincere smile, easy personality, the ability to have funny smart conversation and a love for life. He had a wonderful job and did not hate it. Rare. He had two kids and loved to spend time with them…He loved to travel and actually traveled. He had friends, tons of friends, and could talk with anyone about anything. We instantly clicked on our first date and talked for hours. I remember thinking; this is why I have been going through all this online dating homework, so I could to meet a great guy like this. He was a little larger than I usually date but he fit his frame well and had an amazing head of hair and deep blue eyes. Dates 2 and 3 were just as fun and easy, yet we had not kissed. He was a little shy in that department. Date 4, driving in the BMW convertible after dinner at sunset he grabbed my hand and smiled at me. I should have had that feeling, you know that feeling of initial excitement and tingle like “I am excited to be with you and I want to kiss you” but all I could think of was I felt nothing. NOTHING. Then I started that self-talking….You know the talking you do in your head that no one hears but you…”Am I just being guarded from my last break up?”,” Am I just nervous?”,”Am I too picky?”…Trying to stay relaxed and just go with the moment, I smiled and held his hand all the way back home. When we arrived, I leaned over and kissed him. He smiled and leaned in for more and I knew …Nothing. Damn. Why…He was perfect. Has that ever happened to you??