This guy was “Perfect on Paper”, as the saying goes. A successful doctor, family man, handsome, personable, funny, the list went on. Oh, and did I mention he said he was on good terms with his ex-wife? Yes, I thought this one could possibly go somewhere. After several weeks, he invited me to his house to watch a movie and meet his boys. I felt comfortable enough to do this, so accepted the offer. He was a perfect gentleman, his boys seemed sweet. While watching the movie, I started looking around the room. I noticed family pictures – which included a woman. Hmmm, something seemed fishy. I got up to go to the bathroom; one of those full bathrooms that included a shower. Yes, that’s important to this story. I peeked inside the shower & saw long hair on the shower wall, and tons of women’s products. Keep in mind, this is a house full of boys – so where did all of this women’s stuff come from? I returned to watch the movie, very skeptical at this point, and noticed that all of the family pictures that I had just seen 5 minutes prior were all now gone. Weird! I asked him point blank about what I had seen. He sheepishly told me that he was just separated. Ummm, did he think I wouldn’t notice the pictures and long hair and beauty products? I’m not so sure that he was even separated. And what was with the “on good terms with the ex-wife” comment about? That was my cue to leave & never talk to him again.